I had done something foolish or stupid and told daughter Lise I was just being a goon and needed her as a keeper. We laughed. For the rest of her stay, I referred to myself as a goon, not knowing we began with a different definition of the word. It became obvious that we were talking past each other, so I looked it up. To me a goon was someone who was idiotic or silly. To her a goon had an American definition, a henchman carrying out the wishes of a mobster. Both were correct, so from then on I called myself Goofy Goon.
I couldn’t possibly remember all the instances where I said or did something silly, but attributing it to Goofy Goon sparked our laughter. It was obvious I needed help with all the details that had to be attended to. Lise could easily read and understand legal terms, organize John’s funeral, make phone calls to get a refund from a nasty propane company, find where to go to register John’s estate, deal with medical bills, and confront a bank that gave us conflicting information. The Goofy Goon wants to publicly thank Lise for keeping her focused on tying up loose ends and getting ready to live in the altered state of widowhood.
High five to my favorite Goofy Goon, and her keeper. May your journey continue.
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I did a lot of weeding and trimming today, so I didn’t have much time to be goofy. I’m sure opportunities will present themselves tomorrow.
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Thank you Lisa..You are a blessing to us all who love your Mom and Dad..
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Everyone needs a Lise in their life! The goofy goon is one of our favorite people!
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I love my Goofy Goon!
Signed, The Keeper (or Geeper)
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You were able to comment! Thank you.
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And the many friends and admirers of The Goofy Goon give thanks to Lise as well for her actions of extravagant love poured out in so many tangible ways. That kind of love is not born in a vacuum. Three cheers to the Keeper, and many more too!
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💛💛💛
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Your daughter is a blessing. You’re going through so much, and so is she. I’m so glad you have each other during this time of transition. Love you.
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Lise really got things put to rights quickly. Kate and John $ check in frequently by phone, and those calls give me such a boost. Love you, too.
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phone up that nasty propane company and tell them your going to send over your Goon, Guido!
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The propane company finally sent a check that John had called about several times. Lise was tenacious, taking notes about her calls and calling back repeatedly. I am so thankful that is behind us.
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agreed!….who needs stress!
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I’m so happy you have such a competent, helpful, sweet daughter! Dealing with loss is hard enough without hateful billing departments or whoever gives you a hard time! Shame on them anyway! I had my brother and my husband to help me when my Dad passed and I am so grateful for them!
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Family is invaluable when someone dies.
All of the people we dealt with having to do with John’s death were very, very sympathetic and helpful.
The propane company owed us money for the gas that was left in their tanks. We had to hound them to pick up the tanks, and then they wouldn’t pay for the gas as they had promised. It was sad that a local company sold out to a large one, and the large one was totally incompetent. I’m so glad I won’t have to deal with them again.
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Good riddance I say!
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Very nice you share helped Lise to you. Iam so glad. What Goofy Goon & her keeper? Some I can understand but not clear.
Soory for it’s I ask you ! 🙏
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I made a silly name for myself — Goofy Goon. Lise was helping me a lot, so I called her my keeper.
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Very nice it’s. I like. Iam so glad, you describe me it’s. Thank you so much 🙏
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What would we do without our wonderful daughters? Keep being a goon and keep laughing about it. I am sure your daughter was confused when you called yourself a goon – where do you keep your gun, I am sure she wanted to know.
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You are right. She was confused, but she didn’t say so immediately. That made it even more amusing.
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It’s great that she’s been there for you.
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I don’t know how I could have worked through all the details without Lise. Perhaps I could have plodded through, but she had speed and accuracy.
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I understand. It’s crazy, the amount of details that show up when someone passes. Bills and mail and this and that. Even emails that keep coming and things. Hospital bills for my momma and stuff like that. My sister in law took care of sending all the thank you’s for flowers and things. Love that your daughter was with you and helped you out. What a blessing.
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I did all the thank you notes, and Lise was usually with me to make phone calls. I don’t hear well and often couldn’t understand people on the phone. They would speak so soft that I couldn’t hear them or so loud that it overloaded my hearing aids.
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Phone volume seems tricky these days. Bet people liked getting your thank you’s that you did.
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I mailed most of the thank you notes. If I thought people would forgive me, I sent them email thanks.
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God bless Lise and you my Goofy friend. ❤
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It’s great to be accepted, even when being goofy.
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I was known as Goofy Ruthie for the first half of my life. 🙂
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I hope you haven’t outgrown goofiness entirely.
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No – sometimes it’s intentional and sometimes it’s accidental but I’m afraid the name still fits.
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I’m glad.
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What a lovely picture of you and your daughter.
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Thank you. There is quite a collection. I’m glad she isn’t allergic to the camera as her dad tended to be.
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Your Lise is a paragon of a daughter! xox
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The Keeper is definitely a “keeper” – that is a beautiful picture of the two of you.
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