Car Repair

I dread car repairs, because I don’t really don’t know much about cars. I felt a bit better when the mechanic identified the squeaks as brake pads needing to be replaced. We made an appointment for five days later. I knew there was a space in the service station office where people sometimes sat, but would there be room for me on the appointed day? Would I need to walk around in the shop or outside for a couple of hours? I arrived about ten minutes before the set time, parking before the bay I thought he might use. Before I shut off the engine, I saw the mechanic coming toward me. “You are the nine o’clock appointment, right? I’m ready for you right now.”

I sat down inside, having the bench area all to myself. There was a constant stream of people coming to the service desk. Suddenly I recognized a man’s voice and got up to speak to him. I never knew his real name, but I called him Woodman when telling people about him. He reduced logs to firewood beside the road I walked on to get to the creek. I said, “I’m the one who used to walk by every morning.”

“Oh! How are you? Yes, I remember you. Your hair is lots shorter now.” He did recognize me! We established the fact that we both are fine and said our farewells.

I enjoyed the warmth from the wood-burning stove next to the bench. The photo shows the stove and an inviting rocking chair opposite the bench.

A man came and stood before the stove, and I remarked that the warmth felt good. He said, “Yes, I’m gonna put some in my pockets for later.”

With that he put his hands in his pockets to open them a bit to catch warm air before he walked away.

I certainly did not expect to see someone I knew or to have a mini-conversation with a stranger. I was surprised that only an hour had passed before the cashier said my car was ready. I told myself I should be ashamed of dreading something that turned out to be delightful.

Moving Houseplants

Neighbor Shawn and I sat on my porch one evening to watch the sun set behind the mountains. When the rays of the sun were no longer shining on us, it became chilly quickly. That may have been what prompted her comment that it was about time to take plants in for the winter. I knew I had been getting cool at night and finally switched the system from cooling to heating. If I felt it, I’m sure my plants were even more aware of it. Poor plants. All these years here I didn’t take them inside until temperatures were almost freezing. It just shows what a novice I am.

Still, I was in no special hurry. A day or so later I thought I’d at least trim the plants. That didn’t take long, so I began to move them to their winter quarters in the living room. It was as big a job as I remembered and promptly took a break half way through. It’s awkward to hold a big pot in front of yourself and navigate around furniture. I slept well that night and presume the plants did, too.

In daylight I took a photo, probably to congratulate myself on doing something I would rather have put off. I’m writing this in the same room with the plants, gladly exchanging my carbon dioxide for their oxygen. Thank you, plants.

Logan!

I hadn’t seen neighbor Logan for ages, but he bopped across the road to visit with me for a few minutes. I was so pleased to see him and talk to him that I never thought of taking his photo. He is 16 years old now, looking and sounding very mature. His favorite sport, basketball, will begin in a month or so. I asked if he still had a ball in his hands much of the time, and he smiled and said yes.

I remembered that Logan always ran everywhere he went. Did he still do that?

He laughed and said, “Yes, I ran over here just now.”

Most teenagers have a phone handy, and his rang. I asked, “Do you need to get that?”

He did need to answer. He was being picked up, and the car had just pulled up in front of his house. He gave me a quick hug and was off like a shot. Wow! What a whirlwind! It was marvelous to see him up close. His smile was as engaging as it always was.

First Names

When grandson David was with me, his mother Kate was chatting with us on the phone. We had already covered family news. They brought up puzzles and together began to do the day’s Connections. I was looking at it, too. We all noticed some last names, and I knew two who had the same first name. That turned out to be the key to one of the sets of four.

I don’t remember how it started, but I named the composer Beethoven, and one of them gave his first name – Ludwig. I was very pleased that they also gave some last names, some of which made me search my brain. We played our impromptu game for quite a while. David would search on line if we couldn’t get a name immediately, but we usually came up with it before his phone did. I was very impressed that they knew so many musical names. Yes, they were surrounded by music from birth, but that didn’t mean any of it would stick. Kudos to you, Kate and David!

It occurred to me that any group could play a game like that. Husband John would have been very good at names of politicians. He would also win over almost anyone if the category was historical figures. Some of you might be able to supply first names for designers of clothing. Leave me out of that one! You could make a game from almost any category if you knew your group’s interests – anything from architects to writers.

Car Repairs

The red warning light came on in Kate’s car as she drove home from work. We’ve been taught not to ignore such a dire warning, so the next day she drove to the dealer in the next town. From there, she called the store to let them know she was taking the day off. She doesn’t have family or friends who could have picked her up.

Oh! My! They went into a tizzy! Kate is in charge of shopping the orders that are sent through the internet. There was one worker who could do the shopping and would be there until 1:00, but after that they had no one. The assistant store manager picked her up, and someone should get her back to her car before the shop closes.

The diagnosis for the car was a clogged gas filter and a heat shield that needed to be replaced. Presumably it will be finished today.

Meanwhile, I was alarmed that my car brakes squealed the last time I drove it. I called the service station at the bottom of the hill. The woman said the repairman had just come back, so I should bring the car down for him to look at it. She said to ask for Thomas (not his real name). I parked in front of the service bay and stood there a minute, trying to figure out who to ask. A young man changing a tire said he had gone around the corner. I stood there for several minutes, wondering if Thomas had gone “around the bend”, not the corner. A young woman that I had mistakenly pegged as a stranded motorist, asked was I looking for Thomas. She came back and said he would be with me when he finished something, about five minutes.

Thomas came rushing around the corner and said he’d take the car for a spin, because he could probably tell what was wrong with it by the sounds. He backed up, and the car did its squeal. He pulled forward next to a gas pump, where it protested again. He jumped out, looked at the rear tire, and told me the pads needed to be replaced. I had a choice of going to buy the pads myself at an auto parts store or waiting until next week. He expected that, looked at a calendar, and announced I should bring it in on Tuesday at 9:00 am. Yes, sir! I’ll be there!

Visiting the Truck

As I walked down the hill, almost home from my walk, I saw neighbor Bob walk around his truck. He had asked to park it in my driveway for a few days while they had things going on across the street. This was fine with me, since I need only half the drive, anyway. I was amused at our short chat.

I asked, “Are you visiting your truck?”

He got in the spirit of the conversation and replied,, “Yeah. Kinda missed it.”

He had come over to take the truck home and found the battery dead. He would be back to jump start it. Before he took a step, his phone rang. He pulled it from his pocket, wondering aloud who wanted him.

“Did they hang up?” I asked.

He replied, “They just let it ring once. Guess they didn’t want to talk to me.”

I said, “They don’t know what they’re missing.”

“Right!” he agreed and headed home.

That’s the kind of chat we have around here, but most of the time I don’t remember the words long enough to write them.

Like Old Times

When walking back from the stop sign, I joined neighbor Julie and her dogs on the road at Shawn and Bob’s house. Julie was just beginning her walk, and she chatted with Shawn and Bob from the street. When Julie continued her walk, Shawn invited me to the porch for a cup of coffee. We used to do that from time to time, but we’ve all been busy this year. Bob went inside to make my coffee, as Shawn invited me to sit in his rocking chair. He came back and sat in the straight chair.

We talked a mile a minute, catching up with each other’s news. I have a tendency to overstay my welcome, so I told myself to sip the coffee and leave when the cup was empty. It was hard for me to do. I love to talk and listen!

I announced my intention to leave, rocked the chair forward, and failed to get up. To avoid being stuck like that, I get up and down from a chair ten times every morning. I tried a second time, pushing against the armrests. No go!

Bob said, “Count to three and do it again.”

I obeyed and counted to three. I did get up, noticing at the same time that Bob’s hand had pushed the chair forward when I reached three. Cool trick, Bob! Actually, it was a very kind thing to do, saving me from total embarrassment. Can you imagine thoroughly enjoying porch hospitality and then physically being unable to leave?? Aarrgghh!

Thank you, Bob.

Playing Online Games

For months, neighbor Shawn, niece Chrissie and I have played two New York Times games together. We compare Wordle and Connections by sharing our results with each other. We can’t see the letters we used, only colored tiles. I think we are quite evenly matched. Almost every day one of us could fail a game, although sometimes we all do well. It’s a fun thing, not cut-throat competition. I have miserable results in Connections whenever a group involves sports, movies, or TV. The others do much better than I do in those areas. If I have a strong point, I don’t know what it is.

Often we are disappointed in ourselves because we missed something we should have known. I decided to cut little pieces of paper and write the 16 words of Connections on them. Surely it would help to push the words around while hunting for a common theme for each set of four. If I found a set I was sure of, I’d push those four words to one side. I did that and immediately found one set. Taking those words out of play made it much easier to spot the connections of the other sets. In seconds I finished the game with perfect results. I was shocked. I shared my results with the others and explained what I had done. I decided it was cheating. I’m sure I wouldn’t have done as well if I had shifted things around in my head. Was it the writing of each word? Was it being able to instantly group things because they were not connected as they were on the screen? I have no idea, but I know I was going at warp speed. That felt REALLY GOOD!

Labor Day

Labor Day is a national holiday in the United States, and for the last 11 years I’ve gathered with the neighbors to have a cookout. I have no idea what an ideal celebration of the day would entail. The day is often the beginning of autumnal events – the start of the new school year and easing into pumpkin season. For me, it was just an excuse to party and enjoy family and neighbors.

This year was different. I’m laughing now that I canceled our cookout because I had tendinitis in my shoulder. If I had only waited two more days, I would have canceled because of Coffee Disaster Number Two! The first awful thing happened when daughter Lise was here. I wasn’t paying attention and failed to put the cup under the drip of the coffee machine. I saw a pool of brown on the floor and knew my carelessness was to blame. Lise kindly helped me clean up the mess. It’s a shame I didn’t swear off coffee that instant (but I don’t want to have anything to do with instant coffee).

Two days ago I was putting away clean mugs and didn’t realize I’d left a mug full of coffee in the same area. I lifted two mugs with one hand and began to sling them toward the mug rack. I recognized the sound of liquid splashing on the floor and knew without looking that it was brown. Coffee Disaster Number Two!! At the very end of the cleanup, I reached a tiny bit too far and felt a muscle tearing in my upper leg. Thankfully, I didn’t fall down. After two days, I am perfectly fine as long as my right knee is always facing forward. With the least deviation, I will yelp and straighten the knee. No one needs that kind of drama, so it’s good that I am alone while waiting to heal.

If this was a holiday for you, I hope it was free of disaster.

Smothered by Glory

Two or three years ago, neighbor Shawn gave me Morning Glory seeds. I scattered them only once, and they’ve come back bigger and better every year. Each morning while daughter Kate was here, we counted the blooms. I think there were 28 one morning. I thought one tendril was reaching out to a mystery weed/tree nearby. I left that plant growing, wanting to see what its blooms were like. Well, now it is being strangled and smothered by the morning glory vine. I’m okay with that, since the buds never blossomed. In my opinion, it didn’t deserve to live.

While scattering coffee grounds in skunk holes in the garden, I went closer to the vine. It had reached out, grabbed the weed/tree, and pulled it close to the house. It was no longer standing on its own. [The images below turned themselves sideways. I redid them for an hour, but they refused to show the way they were taken. I am disgusted and have given up for the day.]

I moved to one side to get a different angle, and the entanglement can be seen clearly. This change took place in three days!

I’m now having second thoughts about the wickedness of the wisteria plant on the pergola. It often waved tendrils toward the house, which I took as an aggressive action. It looks quite tame now, after Kate and David trimmed it last week. I’m thinking the morning glory vine is the real killer, and much closer to my living space. I’m sure I’m safe this year, but I shall be on guard next spring when new plants spring up. If they are bigger and stronger and faster than these, I could be in real danger.