I have now put post-it notes on the kitchen counter to remind myself not to lean there. The blank piece of paper I put on my bed every day has almost cured me of leaning on it, so I’ve moved the focus to the kitchen.

There is no telling how long I’ve been leaning on things, but I realized I have callouses on my arms! That didn’t happen overnight. I remember seeing my dad leaning on his kitchen counter, and now I am doing the same thing. He had arthritis, and doctors have told me I have it in my back and hips. (The effects of arthritis were erased from my knees 15 years ago.) Surely I can fight back, using my mind, to stand on my own two feet without leaning on everything in sight.
But do continue to lean on your friends!
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Good pun Good point.
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Right! And I’ll be your guinea pig and let you know if the DMSO works for my arthritis, spinal stenosis, etc.
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I would be very interested in hearing how things turn out for you.
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It does take time for use to adjust to not doing something that has become a natural habit but the reminders do help
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It sounds like you have learned that for yourself. I’m still learning.
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I love post-it notes!
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I use notes to do all sorts of things and it works!
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I’m happy to hear that notes work for you.
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Without notes, I’m chaos!
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This is such a cute idea. I bet it works really well!!
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I haven’t made it to 24 hours with the warning notes yet, but I stopped myself from leaning on my arms today. In doing so, I discovered I’ve been steadying myself with a hand on the counter almost all the time. That might be harder to break.
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Good luck with it!
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Really good Idea. I Like.
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Thank you.
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You are most welcome 🙏
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Great advice. I need to pay more attention to what I lean on and stop it. Thank you for sharing this.
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I’m discovering new things every day that I have been leaning on!
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I am going to pay more attention also. I know I lean a lot and I need to stop.
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👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻Whatever helps maintain muscle and balance is a smart practice! It’s amazing how quickly and absentmindedly I can adopt a poor habit… your post-its were simple and effective.
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The post-its have worked well for 24 hours. I wouldn’t dare take them down yet.
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Good for you!!
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We slip into habit so easily and we do know they are hard to break once they are ensconced in our being. But do be careful. Maybe you need to hold onto bits of furniture or the Kitchen bench for your balance. At my vast age, I am finding myself leaning on furniture more than ever.
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I will heed your warning and figure out if I need to lurch from one piece of furniture to another. It would be foolhardy to assume otherwise.
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Well, if the post-it notes cure you of the habit, I say “go for it!”
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The post-it notes are working well so far.
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