Niece Kathie thought of a way to include me in celebrating my brother’s 85th birthday. She drove from her home to mine, spent the night, drove us to Bob’s for the small party, brought us back to my house, stayed another night, and went home. That driving took about 12 hours, three hours for each leg of the trip. If I had stopped to think of it, I would have said it was far too much for her to do. I’m convinced she is a super person, capable of doing the impossible cheerfully at any time. For the birthday lunch, she prepared a chicken-rice dish, colorful lettuce salad, and cupcakes. Amazing!
Before driving to Bob’s house, we took a walk to the stop sign. The photo was a joint effort. I held the phone, and Kathie tapped the screen.

Bob lit the 8½ candles on the cupcakes as Michael and Julie (number 2 daughter) looked on.

This photo shows Bob’s wife Beth with him and Kathie. We played a game of guessing what item was on a card with one team member using words for the first round and acting the word without speaking on the second. I found out that a deaf person is at a distinct disadvantage in that setting. I didn’t hear crucial things, although Bob did better than I did. It was fun, anyway.

Kathie helped Bob re-pair the fancy bird feeder after a recent problem with the internet provider. The feeder has a camera that takes short videos when birds land on it. I was thrilled to see a photo of a blue bird that Bob extracted and sent to us.


I enjoyed being with everyone and really appreciated Kathie’s driving so long to get us together.
Such a lovely family bonding Anne. Love thd photo of the blue bird.😘
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There are blue birds in my area, but I don’t see them. They are a bit too small and active for me to spot, but neighbor Joyce calls them to my attention when she sees one.
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How wonderful for all of you! I would do that for my aunt, too. Love the bird cam!
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Bob and Beth’s children went together to get the camera bird feeder for them. They have enjoyed it.
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Spending time to drive you back and forth – and stay overnight – was so kind of Kathie. How lovely she made the effort to get everyone together💛.
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Kathie is very special.
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What a great family time. Your niece is a special lady. The photo of the blue bird was amazing!
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The bird cam is fun to watch.
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Lovely family get together. Beautiful looking candles on the cupcake 🧁. Pretty Blue Bird. God bless you all of you 🙏
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Thank you.
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That was very nice of Kathie to drive and pick you up to make this memorable get-together even more memorable. Those Bird Buddy feeders are so unique. A few fellow bloggers have them and have posted pictures of some of the birds, none of them bluebirds though.
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I had a hard time sharing the blue bird photo. My phone couldn’t read it.
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That’s interesting. I still don’t know enough about smartphones to understand the phone “not reading” it. But it was a beautiful picture of a bluebird nonetheless.
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My brother saved one picture from the video, and the file it saved was not a standard one.
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Okay, now I understand. I know you had to take a still shot from the video as well.
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Sounds like a great time was had by all!! ♥
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What a lovely family you have!
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Thank you. They are keepers!
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Wow, your family is so amazing and so youthful! I’d never guess that Bob was 85, he and his wife appear to be in great shape. I smiled at the bluebird photo, what technology has brought us is sometimes good!
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Their daughters knew the bird feeder would be a great gift for them.
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That was so kind to drive you so you can enjoy the time.
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It was a true gift to me!
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How wonderful!
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What a kind neice driving all that way to pick you up and then drive you home afterwards as 12 hours is a long ass drive, nice photos
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Thank you.
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Those were wonderful hours together.
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Bless her for including you ..distance living can be a problem but she over came it and it was a blessing yo you.
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We had a happy gathering, thanks to Kathy.
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