When we passed each other while walking, neighbor Julie asked if I had a busy Saturday coming up. She would be working. I replied, “No! I have nothing planned. Wait. I’m going to blow leaves off the deck, but that won’t take long.”
That much was true. It took less than five minutes to get those leaves onto the grass below. I quickly planned one other task, changing the duvet from the summer one to the winter one. Little did I know that I would reach out for help!
I began by stripping the bed and putting on a fresh, fitted sheet. I couldn’t remember how to remove the duvet from its cover with the burrito method, so I just pulled it out. I started a wash load of bedding and looked up a video for the reverse procedure. Yes, I did remember how to do it. I put the fresh cover out, laid the duvet on top, secured the corners, and rolled it up. It should have been easy to turn it inside out and unroll it. I couldn’t do it! I looked at the pertinent part of the video and still couldn’t succeed. Another set of instructions, words only, seemed even simpler. That didn’t work, either. I realized I couldn’t think like a left-handed person. Backwards/inside-out things baffle me. The bedding was terribly thick and hard to handle. This was as far as I got.

I gave up and texted grandson David. He had helped me before and could probably do it blindfolded.
David came, as he said he would, and he wrestled that duvet into submission. I was really grateful. I offered to fix a meal, so we had a thrown-together tuna casserole and green beans. Here is David about to finish turning the duvet right side out.

At the end of the day, I couldn’t believe laundry and an obstinate duvet had taken up most of the day. That’s OK, though, because I will sleep warmly under the winter bedding.
I loved this for all kinds of reasons–the idea of a duvet cover seemed like a good idea at the time, but now, we just use a quilt or comforter and put the duvet cover on top like a spread. I am definitely duvet challenged. It is getting chilly here at night, too, and I had my first fire in the fire pit tonight and currently wearing my sweatshirt. I am glad David could help you out!
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We bought our first duvet in England in 1980 and haven’t looked back. The burrito method worked for me on the light one, but the winter one is unwieldy. David to the rescue!
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They are all unwieldy to me. 🙂
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Like you, I can’t think like a lefthanded person. I could never drive in the UK for that reason as well. My mom, lefthanded tried to teach me how to knit. It just didn’t compute! Those duvets can be a problem. Thankfully David lives nearby.
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I did drive in the UK for two years and never had a problem. The first week after I was back in the US, I found myself driving on the wrong side of the road. Thankfully no one else was in sight before I corrected myself. That frightened me enough that I never made that mistake again.
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I’m glad I’m not the only one who weekly wrestles with the du te and it’s cover, I started to count it like a gym session so I can have cakes guilt free after while satisfactorily contemplating my newly freshly done dogs hair free bed😂
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Oh! That is amusing. I’d like to count my attempt as a gym session.
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I bet like me you do lots of gym
Sessions😂
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If you mean grappling with things at home, yes. I’m also doing exercises I was given at physical therapy.
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I better not voice my opinion..It just doesn’t work here.
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Maybe you could let your opinion play here.
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You got a lot accomplished!
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There was lots of laundry.
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Changing the duvet covers each season is always a production! Sweet that David came to assist!🛌💤
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You understand!
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Wrestling with it is akin to a full walk to the Creek and back. Glad David was there to smooth the process. 🙂
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I am happy David could help you out! I hope you have left handed. Beautiful duvet cover. I have left ✋ doing work.
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You are left-handed, too?
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Yes, Anne , i do any work left handed. I can wright left ✋ hand. I can try to Right hand wright but don’t success. My brother, sister & my teacher lefthanded tried to teach me how to knit. It just didn’t compute!
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I think knitting would be very difficult to learn to do left-handed.
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No, nothing difficult. I can do to knitting & tech & Sewing 🪡 cloth to left handed. It’s easy to do all work.
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That’s marvelous that you have adapted so well. My late husband and one grandson are lefties, so I’m used to seeing things differently.
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Thank you so much 🙏! Iam so happy. Some people same to me. Beautiful lefti handwriting.
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