We missed Logan’s boarding the bus on the first day of school by two minutes. We were walking up the steep hill and saw his feet as he sprang in the bus. We were a bit earlier the second day, in time to get a picture of him. He was so proud of his new sneakers that he actually stood still.
As the bus chugged up the hill, he was a blur as he ran to the end of the road.

Retrieval systems came into play after school. John used a pole to extricate an airplane, while Logan had a stick to get back a tennis ball he had thrown.
Checkers gave John a chance to rest after all the activity in the yard.
Today is quite different from the exuberance of youth. We are saying goodbye to neighbor Dave and thinking of peace and rest. I last talked with him as the neighborhood celebrated the Fourth of July. His health went downhill, and he couldn’t win that last battle with pneumonia. We will miss seeing him with Connie on their porch, hearing his ready wit and interesting stories, and knowing a big-hearted man can only love us from afar. This is my favorite picture of him, taken on our back porch on Memorial Day, 2016.
Mixed days emotion-wise.
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Logan was at the funeral and showed exemplary behavior.
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fun with Logan and fun for him too 🙂 Sorry about Dave, he will be a part of your memories. Regards
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Thank you for reading and commenting. Logan was at the funeral, too. He probably spent more time with neighbor Dave than we did.
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Youth and age….blessings to all.
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So sorry about the loss of your good friend. I’m glad you got to say goodbye. And it’s good to balance the sad with the happiness of Logan’s life. Glad you have that.
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Logan was at the funeral. We all enjoyed a slideshow of Dave’s life, seeing him as a young man and watching him as he aged.
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Aw… It may be a while before Logan realizes how blessed he is to have you in his life. But he will ❤
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I remember neighbors who were kind to me, especially the one who let us put our hands in her cookie jar!
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Yep, me too. Those were my favorites.
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So sorry for your loss of a friend and neighbor. He will continue to live in your thoughts and memories. Thoughts and prayers to the Valley from the Eastern Shore.
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Thank you for your thoughts and prayers. We’ve had such wonderful neighbors and hate to see any of them leave, whether temporarily or permanently.
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Sorry to hear about your friend and neighbor Dave. I am thinking perhaps this is the friend you mentioned who was battling COPD like my good friend and neighbor Marge? Pneumonia can take you down so quickly especially if you have a compromised immune system. Logan looks all spit-shined and new shoes and a new haircut too I think. He is lucky to have you and John in his life.
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Yes, Dave had respiratory problems, but not from smoking. Logan was even more spiffy at the funeral.
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Bet Logan looked much older all dressed up – I noticed the haircut or those hairs were tamed down. I know you said in a recent post he seemed older or more mature at Summer’s end.
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He not only looked older, he acted older.
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Amazing when you think of it – he did spend a lot of time at your house though, so being around adults no doubt was the cause and you had four adults there to interact with him. My parents were 30 years older than me and being an only child, plus my parents were so strict, kind of set the tone for me. I don’t think I was as rambunctious as kids who had siblings … just my opinion though.
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You are right. Logan has spent lots of time with older adults. There are no children his age in this area.
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So he will grow up mature for his age – I had pals in Canada who were my age, and also lots of kids on this street around my age, but they all had siblings so that made it a little different. You always had someone to play with even at home … my parents read a lot, so I sat there in my chair and the basket of Golden Books beside me and just did what they did. Self-entertainment when you are an only child.
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You missed the anguish of fighting with a sibling. Loneliness has an advantage or so.
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Yes, and without having an older sibling, I couldn’t say “but they got to do ___________, so why can’t I?”
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LOL!
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And if you don’t have a dog, you can’t blame things on siblings or the dog … no scapegoat. You are it!
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You were under the microscope, weren’t you?
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Yes, I needed siblings to bounce feedback off of!
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I’m sorry about the loss of your friend Anne.
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Thank you, David. He was a wonderful man. He loved Logan, too!
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Sorry, that jumped a bit quickly. I was going to add I almost didn’t recognise Logan standing still and looking really dapper.
xxx Massive Hugs xxx
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It’s hard to catch Logan standing still.
xxx Racing Hugs xxx
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Lovely about logan, glad to see different generation of people connecting with each other on an emotional level like this. Sorry about Dave, may God bless him and may he rest in peace. ❤
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There were eight of us from the neighborhood, including Logan, at the funeral. Thanks for commenting.
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My pleasure 🌸🌸
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It is always nice reading about Logan. Smart kid!
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Sorry to hear about your friend and neighbor. I pray you find comfort and peace.
Logan looks ready and excited for school.
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Thank you. Logan didn’t complain about the start of school!
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Dear Anne,
What does one say when a friend has lost a dear friend and neighbor? Perhaps the fact that he lives on in your memories and prayers as he looks on from afar will bring comfort. Wonder what Logan thinks of Dave’s passing.
Logan looks all smart as he started grade 3.
Susie
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Logan saw Dave more often than we did. His parents played cards with Connie and Dave on a regular basis.
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Wow, third grade. Logan’s really getting big. I’m sorry to hear about your neighbor. He sounds like he was a wonderful person.
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Logan seems more mature now. That may be because we didn’t see him very much this summer. He was busy doing things with relatives, and we had our grandsons with us. We’re pleased Logan hasn’t outgrown us yet.
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I am so very sorry about your friend. Loss never gets easy. Praying for you and hoping Logan has a wonderful year. love Michele
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Thanks for your prayers.
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I’m sorry to hear of the loss of your neighborhood friend. It doesn’t matter how much older and wiser I become, it is never easy to say goodbye. Logan is a doll! I saw the school photograph and an “Awww”…burst out of me.
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Logan had a great summer, but he was ready to go back to school.
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I had to laugh about Logan running for the bus. It reminded me of my boys and how I had an awful time getting first day of school photos of them! They would take off running like calves let go in the pasture.
So sorry to hear about your neighbor Dave. My deepest sympathy to you and John, Anne.
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Thank you, Faye. I loved your description — like calves let go in the pasture. Logan is never still unless he is playing checkers.
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Following Logan to 3rd grade brings me right back to our own son’s little boy years. Also sorry for the loss of your good neighbor.
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I don’t remember much of our son’s first school years. There is a big gap in our family. When $ was in first grade, the girls were in high school and college.
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So sorry to hear you lost one of your neighbors, looks like a good man. Logan looks adorable, hope he has a great school year!
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Dave was a police officer for 20 years and was a staunch supporter of law and order. Logan’s school year was off to a good start. We never heard him say he didn’t want to go back to school!
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Such lovely photos!
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