Neighborhood Celebration

With a flurry of email and text messages, our group organized an impromptu party for the Fourth of July. People came from five of the six homes on this street. Not bad for six hours’ notice! Everyone brought something for the dinner, so we had quite a spread. The people who bought Amy’s house were here, meeting most of the others for the first time. It was so much fun to hear people sharing things about themselves.

Shawn and Bob brought a watermelon, and I was glad she asked him to cut it. He did a beautiful job, filling one bowl with picture-perfect slices and another with chunks that were easy to eat.

As Bob finished, I said, “Wow! You are house trained!” He rinsed all the utensils he used and then wiped down the counter. In all my born days, I can’t remember seeing a man clean the counter where he had worked.

Five in the crowd don’t know that I write in a public place, so because I don’t have their permission to share, I’ll use just initials. The most effervescent was F. She could turn the simplest story into an entertaining tale, embellishing it with animated gestures. Her husband, S, could carry on a good conversation face to face, but he yielded the stage to her. No one minded.

The new neighbors grew up in Minnesota and moved to the next town, Maggie Valley, nine years ago. J is a runner, and he asked if there were a circular route he could take that would be about seven miles long. We thought we were good to walk regularly, but he is in a class by himself. Someone said he runs up Qualla, the steep hill that I love to complain about.

Many conversations circled around to Shawn and Bob, the first ones to build on the street. He built their house, as well as the one next to it. They knew the histories of all the houses and the people in them.

I wish I could remember all the things we laughed about, but only one stuck in my mind. Joyce said to Bob, “I have a little bit of money to spend on the house, so would you look at my garage again?”

Bob said, “Wait until you have a LOT of money and then ask me.” Of course, he went on to say that he would be glad to see what she needed.

I felt the group was convivial, all nine of us joining in the conversation. Meanwhile, the young men and Logan ate on the porch where they could be as loud as they wanted. During the heat of the late afternoon, Dennis opened the water slide and set it up. Logan was delighted with it. The slide was a bit short and flimsy for the big boys, but it seemed just right for a six-year-old.

Before dark, Bob took the young set to Lake Junaluska to see the fireworks. They thought the show was good, but not long enough. Meanwhile, Joyce and Shawn sat on the porch with us after everyone else left. I love it when a party ends by degrees, not abruptly.

Fourth of July Minus One  

We were dressed in holiday garb to go to church on July 3, which is something we always did in New York on the July 4th weekend.  The church down here was having a picnic after the service, and a number of people were wearing patriotic colors.

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We did not go to the church picnic, but what we did was unusual for us.  We went shopping at Toys R Us and a hobby shop, looking for a replacement for the glider that disappeared into tall evergreens the other day.  Certain ones checked out model trains first.  Isn’t that what everyone does?

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We were in a silly mood.

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We spent more time looking at water toys than anything else and came home with a slide that the boys are eager to test.  Gliders were not to be found anywhere.  Don’t tell me our nation has become so high-tech that gliders are no longer stocked in stores!

Pistols at Dusk

Though not sizzling, the afternoon was hot and humid. Dennis checked to see if Logan, his foster brother, could come out to play with water guns. I’ll bet the young boy was very disappointed that he was on his way to a baby shower. The young men played, anyway, and came in drenched. While we were eating a late supper, Logan rang the doorbell. He was holding his new water pistol and sat on a step stool, waiting patiently for us to finish.

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Dennis and Logan

 

John asked him about the gun.

“I got it for my birthday,” he replied.

“Do you know who gave it to you?”

“Yes,” he said. “David and Nate.”

John and I were impressed that he remembered. He opened his gifts in a tearing hurry, and we would not have expected him to know or care whose names were on them.

We had bought a set of four pistols to have at our house, so all the boys armed themselves and went out with Logan. I followed the sound of shrieks to the deck where I had a good view of the action. Logan strategized with Dennis, pulling him down to his level. The foster brothers ran down the slope to challenge the half-brothers. Actually, I don’t think they had teams. It was probably each man for himself. They were merciless, shooting each other at point blank range.

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At my request, Nathaniel used his phone to see when squirt guns were first used. It was in the 1860s!! The first ones were made of iron, plated with nickle, and held enough to shoot about 10 times. He then filled a gun and went outside to see how long ours would go. He said 147 times! We’ve come a long way.

I think I had a red water pistol when I was little. Does anyone else remember having one?

War and Peace  

Dennis, the former neighborhood foster teen, stayed with us overnight a few weeks ago.  He expressed interest in coming back to help with Vacation Bible School with his foster parents, Shawn and Bob.  Plans were not finalized until two days before it started.  We were halfway to Brevard after church, so we picked him up.  Dennis and our grandsons quickly resumed their friendship from previous visits.

It wasn’t long before they pulled out the Nerf guns, a favorite pastime.  I’m quite sure David and Nathaniel never played with them this much when they were boys.  With age came more sophisticated play.  Surprisingly, there was less noise and more strategy.  The one most appropriately dressed was Dennis.  Somewhere they found a never-worn camouflage outfit that belonged to David.  The label said it was a small size, but it fit Dennis perfectly.  Children might have resented being asked to pose, but these young men pandered to the wishes of the toy camera.

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Digging trenches was the other war front.  Dennis was at Bible School every morning, and David worked four days.  That left Nathaniel and John to attack the waterfall project.  John was very thankful for N’s young back.  The two of them moved earth and dug out rocks.  Since our garden was inhabited by inherited plants, I forgot the terrain would be rocky.  They found plenty of evidence that we live in the mountains.

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Shawn and I agreed that having potluck dinners would be an efficient way to feed everyone  It was a lovely, if slightly frenetic, way for all eight of us to visit.  The photo shows the transition from war to peace.

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One evening Logan was particularly restive when the rest of us wanted to settle in our chairs to visit.  We had an unopened Lego engine that kept him occupied.  Luckily, he was sitting next to the Lego enthusiast, David.  The toy was not easy to assemble, and they hit a snag when one of the pieces broke.  Someone searched the big box of Legos and found a replacement.

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Several days later the big fellows were playing at the table, waiting for everyone to finish eating.  I told them Logan would have been envious.  Dennis and Nathaniel completed the engine.  Ta da!!

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Although the days were quite warm, the air cooled in the evening.  Someone noticed flashes of light in the sky which never did develop into a thunderstorm, but we went to the front porch to watch.  I laughed at the way we settled in, because John just bought two more chairs to accommodate more people.  He placed the new chairs and the rockers in two conversation groups.  When I went out to look, I said our house looked like an old folks’ home.  Guess it is, at that.  David and Dennis promptly perched on the railing while looking at their phones.

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After a day with rain showers, the fellows burned all the garden debris in the burn pit.  Logan was attracted to the activity, and soon Dennis and David were throwing the glider with him.  The day wasn’t complete until the plane got hung up in the evergreen tree.  David and Dennis ended the day peacefully sitting by the dying embers.

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Logan is Six  

We teased a lot about Logan’s being Dennis the Menace, while we filled our roles as the old couple next door, the Wilsons.  We may still play George and Martha, but it officially came to an end today.  Dennis the Menace is a perpetual five-year-old, and Logan has outgrown him.

We sang Happy Birthday while Logan waited to blow out the candle.

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Someone said, “We’ve gotta sing the family song.”  There was a little reluctance, but the whole family joined in.  I thought it was going to be something short and silly, but it was more like a polished show tune.  Shawn said she remembered her grandmother singing this birthday song, so it has been in their family a long time.

Logan was eager to show off his swing set, given by a neighbor whose children had outgrown it.  Our grandson Nathaniel offered to go around to the back of the house with him.  It was easy for me to step out on the deck above and get a quick shot of the six-year-old and the six footer swinging together.  It wasn’t until I saw the photo that I realized the frame was set up as only neighbor Bob would have done it.  Two logs made a solid footing on one end.  Living on the edge of a sloping mountain calls for level-headed ingenuity.

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The gift that was the hit of the party was a sprinkler.  You load a ball at the top, and it spirals down to be shot up in the air by the water.  Amazingly, the ball sometimes stayed on top of the spray for a minute or so.  The young children put on swimsuits and got soaking wet.  Grandsons David and Nathaniel were right there in the action, but they knew how to avoid the spray.

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The party ended on a quieter level as Logan challenged David to a game of checkers.

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Five Years and Seven Inches Later  

From the beginning, our two grandsons have always gotten along very well.  Five years ago David, at 16, towered over Nathaniel after one of his teenly growth spurts.  Nathaniel was probably of average height for a boy of eleven.  That summer we took a day trip upstate to look at minor waterfalls and ate at a Burger King restaurant between points of interest.  While the boys were clowning around, I took a quick photo that made it appear David was lording or kinging it over Nathaniel.  It was always one of my favorites because the boys were having fun together.

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Five years later it was Nathaniel’s turn to play the 16-year-old.  He is 6’4” tall now.  When I mentioned Burger King crowns, David immediately knew the incident and the picture I was thinking of.  He is working at Burger King this summer and brought home two crowns for a reenactment on the first day of Nathaniel’s visit.

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A new twist was Nathaniel’s wearing two crowns like a checkers king and David trumping his stance by pointing to the logo on his official hat.

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More in character is a shot of them with their arms about each other.  Our summer is off to a wonderful start.

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Monday’s Paper  

On the first day of summer, I reverted to my warm weather routine in the morning.  After John and I walked, I turned on the recirculating pump in the angel fountain and sat down to read the newspaper on the front porch.  We’ve decided that’s about the only way I can enjoy the sound, because after half an hour or so, the fountain begins to leak.  It’s an odd job, being the guardian of an angel.  You’d think a concrete angel would be tough enough to take care of herself.  Several times I forgot to turn off the pump, and I came back to hear desperate sucking noises from that angel.  Without me, her heart would fail.

I had gotten quite warm while walking, so cooling down beside the fountain seemed inviting.  I followed the usual pattern, reading all the headlines and continuing with an article only if I were interested.  We take the Asheville paper, which is like the New York Times in one way only – the size of the paper it is printed on.  As I finished the comics, I realized I was cold, almost shivering, in fact.  Jeans and a light cotton top didn’t have many insulating qualities.

Going inside, I said to John, “I’m glad this is Monday when the paper is tiny, because I’m nearly frozen.”

He laughed, realizing I stayed outside until I finished reading it.  He replied, “That’s not surprising.  It was 50 degrees when we left the house, you know.”

Brrrrr!  Do you think I need to get the angel a coat?

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He Found it Amusing  

Our children are rarely in the area on special occasions.  Let me clarify that.  If something were REALLY special, we’d be together at some point, but Father’s Day is not one of those days.  One daughter lives 800 miles away, and the other 3,000.  Also, pertinent to the story is John’s love of greeting cards.  Buying a card is the first thing he thinks of.  I’m on the opposite end of the scale.  I’m hardly ever at a loss for words, and, miser that I am, I hate to spend money on something I can do myself.

I realized on Sunday morning that I had done nothing to mark this day.  When John came in the room, I said, “I’m sorry I didn’t get you anything for Father’s Day.”

Before I could get breath for another sentence, he said, “I’m not your father.”

“Well, yes, but….”

It took me a minute to recover, but I continued, “You often get me something for Mother’s Day.  I’ll tell you what.  On the way home from church, let’s stop in Dollar General.  They have a great card selection.  I’ll find the card I think is suitable.  You’ll read it, and we can put it back on the shelf and leave.”

He burst out laughing, so I figured I gave him a bit of pleasure on the day.

Update on the Neighborhood   

The day after Amy moved, we were taken out for lunch by North Carolina friends who were here for a conference in Lake Junaluska.  It’s a wonder we were able to eat, because we talked non-stop.  There is always so much to catch up on.

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Rus and Elizabeth had a time constraint, but we didn’t.  John offered to drive David and me on the Blue Ridge Parkway.  Both rhododendron and mountain laurel were blooming.  This is the first year we’ve been up there at prime time, and it was glorious.

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While standing at the creek, John turned to see a bird that was clicking as it flew under the bridge.  I recognized the clicking sound as that of a kingfisher, and I saw it quickly enough to identify it by sight, as well.  I used to see them occasionally on Long Island.  This was a first here.

Our new neighbors were very busy the first two days.  Several friends helped them carry things into the house, so we stayed out of the way.  We finally caught them outside to welcome them to the neighborhood.  Hopefully we can soon get a photo of them so that you can see them, too.  Their names are Dawn and Jeff.  I hadn’t thought about it before, but it’s great that we don’t have any duplicate names on the street.  It seems everywhere you go, there are multiple Johns and Davids.

An afternoon thunderstorm joined the sun to give us a rainbow in the backyard.  The photo doesn’t show it clearly, but the end appeared to be glowing behind the trees at the edge of the pasture.  I’m sure that is the closest I’ve ever been to the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.  When I looked at the photo again, I was aghast that the rainbow appeared to hover over the wicked wisteria as if blessing it.  No!  Please don’t encourage that greedy plant!

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Amy’s Move  

We saw much of Amy’s move from our front porch.  It became tense as we watched heavy thunderclouds approach.  The movers shoved items sitting on the drive into the truck at the last minute before the heavens opened.  What a deluge!

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Minutes from a thunderstorm

We thought the move was finished at this end until Amy told us they needed another truck. They had miscalculated, despite Amy’s asking if everything was going to fit in one medium-sized van.  The finish was postponed until the following day.

As planned, Amy and her sister Susan, came to our house.  We were with them when Amy got a peculiar computer-generated telephone message from her agent.  The closing was canceled due to lack of interest.  What????  They didn’t need that at the end of a long day when the closing was supposed to be in 15 hours.  It turned out to be a mistake, but mistakes can zap what little ooph you have left.

We had dinner, and this time I did remember one of Amy’s statements that had us laughing.

Susan said kindly, “I hope you are going to sleep like a baby tonight.”

Amy replied, “What?  Sleep two hours and wake up wet????”

After the meal, we had a little celebration.  It was our 52nd wedding anniversary, marked by a chocolate cake which we five demolished in one sitting.

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David took a shot of the movers and the stayers at my request.  I hadn’t wanted to aim the camera at Amy while she was in the middle of moving on an oppressively hot and humid day.  We all look fairly compliant.

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Amy and Susan with us

We sat on the front porch waiting for dark.  Amy said she couldn’t sleep until it was dark, and Susan pointed out that it would take a while.  This day was not far from the longest day of the year.  The thunderstorm had cleared the air and lowered the temperature, so it was a pleasant wait.

We said our goodbyes after breakfast.  Susan supervised the movers while Amy went to the closing.  When everyone had gone, David and I went to Amy’s stream while it still belonged to her.  He waded up and down, choosing a rock to send back to a friend who is collecting one rock from every state.

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David in Amy’s stream

Logan joined us, eager for anything to allay his boredom on the second day of summer vacation.  I took a quick shot as the guys moved from Amy’s land to ours.  Starting now, the place belongs to Dawn and Jeff.  I’ll introduce you as soon as we’ve met them ourselves.

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David and Logan with Amy’s empty house